Not Everything Needs My Full Weight

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Learning to Live a Little Lighter

I’m slowly learning that
I don’t have to give everything my full weight.

Not every thought needs to be followed.
Not every feeling needs to be explained.
Not every person needs my whole heart.

There were times when life felt almost unbearable—
heavy days, quiet pain, moments I didn’t know how to name.
But those moments came not to break me,
only to teach me something I wasn’t ready to hear before.

That I can learn.
And keep learning.
Even when I don’t understand yet.

I’ve noticed that when I expect less,
I’m disappointed less.
When I try less to prove myself,
I hurt less.

Some people give too much,
too carefully,
and end up wounded by their own kindness.
I’m learning not to do that anymore.

To live a little lighter.

Not careless—
just lighter.

I see it everywhere now.
When I move gently, my body doesn’t ache as much.
When I begin slowly, I don’t regret the next day.
Most things hurt less
when I don’t force them.

Even storms feel different this way.

I’ve learned that storms don’t calm down
just because I fight them.
They pass when they’re ready.
And while they do,
I can soften my heart
instead of tightening it.

So I try not to compare my life with others.
I try to notice what I already have.
I try to think a little less.

And somehow,
life feels kinder that way.

Maybe happiness isn’t about holding on tighter—
but about letting things flow,
just a little lighter.

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The Back We Will One Day Show

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The Backs We Watch Watching someone’s back quietly, without calling their name, makes my heart a little more beautiful, a little more humble. The back of a delicate bird that flies away the moment you speak. The back of a white butterfly that dances off before you even think to call it. The back of a poet who stays for a long while, just because the sunset by the sea is beautiful. The backs of nuns walking slowly along a corridor, or sitting in silence, praying. And then— one day, before leaving this world, my mother appeared in my dream, empty-handed, walking toward the gate of the convent, her back turned to me. At a funeral hall, the backs of family members standing again and again before the portrait of someone they loved. Why do backs always look a little sadder than faces? Why do they make us stare at the horizon, as if waiting for something we cannot name? Perhaps it is because, someday, we know we will also leave quietly— imagining in advance the back we will one day show to th...
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She Simply Made Space

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The Quiet Act of Waiting She was not someone who tried to keep things. She was someone who knew how to let them go. Her hand was empty— not calling the bird, not preparing to hold it. Just open, as if flying away was always allowed. The white bird carried a letter, but she did not wonder what it said. Some feelings are already delivered long before they arrive. Things that leave rarely offer explanations. Understanding is left to those who remain. Petals fell. The light leaned toward evening. Below her, the city breathed as if nothing had changed at all. She was not waiting. She knew even waiting can become a way of holding on. So she simply made space. Some goodbyes are spoken through posture, not words. And some kinds of love remain only by knowing how to release them.
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